As a (former) psychologist I do a lot of reading and research on the psychology and brain function associated with gambling.
Here is some interesting, recent, research:
Near misses produce almost the same "positive brain rush" as wins. We all know our brains go "yeah-yeah-ga-ga" when we win. BUT, they produce a similar response when we have a near miss. For example, if you are playing 3 wheel slots and you spin and land on 1. Bonus bananna 2. Bonus bananna, 3. You miss the third bonus bananna by ONE spot! You are disappointed, BUT your brain still "pumps" out a positive reaction.
Now the bad news of this: This is one explanation why we play-TOO-much when we know we should stop. Near misses keep us going. It also explains why we foolishly blow through an accumulated win-pot. If near misses still feel good to the brain, we keep playing!
Now.......tell me. Has this been your experience. I would love to test this recent research theory with experienced gamblers!
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Prevedeno sa
Kao (bivši) psiholog, dosta čitam i istražujem psihologiju i funkciju mozga povezane sa kockanjem.
Evo nekih zanimljivih, nedavnih istraživanja:
Bliski promašaji proizvode skoro isti „pozitivan nalet mozga“ kao i pobede. Svi znamo da nam mozak ide "da-da-ga-ga" kada pobedimo. ALI, oni daju sličan odgovor kada imamo skoro promašaj. Na primer, ako igrate 3 slota točka i okrećete se i sletite na 1. Bonus bananna 2. Bonus bananna, 3. Promašite treću bonus bananu za JEDNO mesto! Razočarani ste, ALI vaš mozak i dalje "ispumpa" pozitivnu reakciju.
A sada loše vesti o ovome: Ovo je jedno od objašnjenja zašto igramo PREviše kada znamo da treba da prestanemo. Skoro promašaji nas drže dalje. To takođe objašnjava zašto glupo propuštamo akumulirani vin-pot. Ako se promašaji i dalje osećaju dobro za mozak, nastavljamo da igramo!
Sad mi reci. Da li je ovo vaše iskustvo. Voleo bih da testiram ovu nedavnu teoriju istraživanja sa iskusnim kockarima! -
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yep yep...I think you are right on the money
da da...mislim da si u pravu za novac
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Yeah, brains are a little stupid...
Even worse, the other day I read that your brain does all the the decision taking by itself and your conscience is only left to reason out the decision to yourself.
Did I get this right, psychologically?Da, mozgovi su malo glupi...
Što je još gore, pre neki dan sam pročitao da vaš mozak sve odluke donosi sam, a vašoj savesti ostaje samo da sebi obrazloži odluku.
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I am a little surprised that this is "recent" research discovered. Being a addictions counselor and dealing with many gambling addictions this was a very common thing discussed in group and one on one in therapy.
The slot industry was well aware of this long ago. The slot machine is tailored to tease and taunt the player making them hungry for more and make another deposit or slip another $20 in the machine feeling certain it's going to "pop" soon. The machine is set to make the endorphins in your brain go gaga!!
There is so many triggers that cause players to keep coming back for more. Chasing the losses hoping to rebound, the thrill of winning, the thrill of coming close to win and escapism just to name a few.
Women as a whole have a much higher level of getting caught up in these triggers than men do. In more cases than not these woman who did become addicted were escaping from something in there lives. Whether it was loneliness or bad marriages or replacing one addiction with another. Gambling takes you away from the harsh reality in life and seems to be the cure all for what ever is happening that is unpleasant or missing in their lives. Sadly enough this makes for prime targets of addiction.
Out of all the addictions.......gambling is the toughest one to conquer. It is harder than kicking the drug habit or the alcohol. One of the theories for this is because out of these 3 addictions gambling is more socially acceptable. It also is the most destructive as a whole and can be the easy to hide in the short term. Gambling addiction not only destroys you it destroys families and leaves them in financial ruins because of the amount of money that can be blown.
Out of all the addictions, the gambler has the highest rate of suicide than any other addictions. So while it may give a player a temporary high.....the crash can be worse than the aftermath of a coke binge.
LipsMalo sam iznenađen što je ovo „skorašnja” otkrivena istraživanja. Budući da sam savetnik za bolesti zavisnosti i da se bavim mnogim zavisnostima od kockanja, ovo je bila vrlo česta stvar o kojoj se razgovaralo u grupi i jedan na jedan na terapiji.
Industrija slotova je toga odavno bila svesna. Slot mašina je skrojena da zadirkuje i ismejava igrača što ga čini gladnim za još i da uplati još jedan depozit ili ubaci još 20 dolara u mašinu sa uverenjem da će uskoro „iskočiti“. Mašina je podešena da natera endorfine u tvom mozgu da se pokrenu!!
Postoji toliko mnogo pokretača zbog kojih se igrači vraćaju po još. Jurnjavanje za gubicima u nadi da će se vratiti, uzbuđenje zbog pobede, uzbuđenje približavanja pobedi i bekstvo da spomenemo samo neke.
Žene u celini imaju mnogo veći nivo uhvaćenosti u ove okidače nego muškarci. U više slučajeva ove žene koje su postale zavisne su bežale od nečega u životu. Bilo da je to bila usamljenost ili loši brakovi ili zamena jedne zavisnosti drugom. Kockanje vas udaljava od surove stvarnosti u životu i čini se da je lek za sve što se dešava što je neprijatno ili nedostaje u njihovim životima. Nažalost, ovo čini glavne mete zavisnosti.
Od svih zavisnosti.......kockanje je najteže za pobediti. Teže je nego odbaciti naviku droge ili alkohola. Jedna od teorija za ovo je zato što je od ove 3 zavisnosti kockanje društveno prihvatljivije. Takođe je najrazorniji u celini i može se lako sakriti u kratkom roku. Zavisnost od kockanja ne samo da vas uništava, već uništava porodice i ostavlja ih u finansijskim ruševinama zbog količine novca koji se može uneti.
Od svih zavisnosti, kockar ima najveću stopu samoubistava od bilo koje druge zavisnosti. Dakle, iako to može dati igraču privremeni maksimum, pad može biti gori od posledica konzumiranja kokaina.
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Well said Lips, you were spot on in my book.
Dr. I agree that the machines do that on purpose, there have been many times, that I would have a near miss, and put more money in because I was sure it was going to hit it.
Kinda like getting 4 to a Royal Flush in VP. Most people believe if it's handing out the 4 so easily, the 5th one is soon to come, thus they keep on playing.
The thrill of almost winning is something I think our brain uses to tell us that we will win if we keep on playing.
I became a little obsessed with gambling when I first started, an addiction maybe. I would play allll day and alll night, but I soon seen what this was doing to me, and now I deposit maybe $20 a month.
Living in Vegas most of my life Lips, I seen first hand what a gambling addiction could do. My Aunt lost everything, and her husband got so in debt that he took his own life. Gambling addiction is serious.
:-*Dobro rekao Lips, bio si na mestu u mojoj knjizi.
Dr. Slažem se da mašine to rade namerno, bilo je mnogo puta, da bih skoro promašio, i uložio više novca jer sam bio siguran da će to pogoditi.
Kao da dobijete 4 do Roial Flush-a u VP. Većina ljudi veruje da ako se tako lako deli 4, peti će uskoro doći, pa nastavljaju da igraju.
Uzbuđenje od skoro pobede je nešto što mislim da naš mozak koristi da nam kaže da ćemo pobediti ako nastavimo da igramo.
Postao sam malo opsednut kockanjem kada sam prvi put počeo, možda zavisnost. Igrao bih ceo dan i celu noć, ali ubrzo sam video šta mi ovo radi, i sada uplaćujem možda 20 dolara mesečno.
Živeći u Vegasu većinu svog života Lips, video sam iz prve ruke šta zavisnost od kockanja može učiniti. Moja tetka je izgubila sve, a njen muž se toliko zadužio da je sebi oduzeo život. Zavisnost od kockanja je ozbiljna.
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My personal experience with gambling, yes very true theres a higher temptation because it is acceptable to society, and you will gamble to ease the troubles mentally wrecking havoc and even the physical pains you are sufferring, it will take you away from those things in the duration of gambling also it is not a chemical you are putting into your body. You're having fun, you beleive you are in your right mind, no thoughts other then that machine in front of you, you can tend to think you have the chance of relieving all the fails and ails of what is going on in your life if you can just hit that big one, which you can beleive you can accomplish with just 20 bucks, and what's 20 bucks now a days? I think even day dreaming can be an addition. It goes alot deeper for those who do it and theres many more aspects, but with it we do not think about the devastation that 20 bucks can lead us to, one more 20 will do it, this win will be the answer to all the worries and problems in my life, gee it keeps giving me 4 to the royal or lining up 2 of the million dollar hit, i can't leave it now, i warmed it up
Theres much more and this is in short. I went gambling to get away from her father, the money problems (how ironic) the unhappiness and depression of things going on within myself, the nearest casino was a walk away, as soon as i would walk in the door, i'd take that big deep breath of relaxation, and damn near run to the machine i wanted, sit down and let out that breath and say.. i'm home.
Another example was i had a terrible toothache, this was in the evening, not being able to visit a dentist til morning, nothing i did was relieving it, i think i took like 14 advils, tried every form of topical anesthetic or natural remedy, hot water, cold water... Well i finally walked out the door and headed towards the casino, still in horrible pain i sat down at a machine. Within the hour the pain subsided, at home i was going through hell with the pain, i come here i find out all it took was mind of matter, but nothing esle would do.. relieved. As soon as i walked out and towards home, it was coming back. So i'm saying thats how strong the pain reliever "gambling" can be. Whether physical pain or mental.
In short..Yes, it got bad, i lost every single thing i possessed, to the utmost in embarressment, living in cheap weeklys, i did quit and i did get on my feet.. my luck was my daughter. It is now something i can control, something i had a good hard lesson with, i can take it or leave it.
Drugs, thats been my monster, the worst nightmare, i'm clean but if i ever were to just let a tiny taste in.. i'll have no control and i'll let that monster eat me alive over and over again. The chemical substance that envades my body will control every fiber, then the brain along with the body reacts with it's dependency on that rush just wanting more and more. You can't tell your brain and your body no more, it's a fight you have to give in to, no matter what it takes to feed it, you're gonna do it.. majority rules. (this is my personal experience, not a perception and i do feel that the only way another is to understand it is one that has been there)
Gambling and alcohol i can be around and have control, infact enjoy the brain rush and i can walk away, drugs.. thats a no, i have to stay away from.Moje lično iskustvo sa kockanjem, da, tačno je da postoji veće iskušenje jer je prihvatljivo za društvo, a vi ćete se kockati da biste ublažili probleme mentalno uništavajući pustoš, pa čak i fizičke bolove koje trpite, to će vas odvesti od tih stvari u trajanje kockanja takođe nije hemikalija koju unosite u svoje telo. Zabavljaš se, veruješ da si pri zdravoj pameti, nemaš druge misli osim te mašine ispred tebe, možeš da misliš da imaš šansu da se oslobodiš svih grešaka i nevolja onoga što ti se dešava u životu ako možete samo da pogodite taj veliki, za koji možete da verujete da možete da postignete sa samo 20 dolara, a koliko je sada 20 dolara dnevno? Mislim da čak i dnevno sanjanje može biti dodatak. To ide mnogo dublje za one koji to rade i ima mnogo više aspekata, ali uz to ne razmišljamo o pustošenju do koje nas može dovesti 20 dolara, još jedno 20 će to učiniti, ova pobeda će biti odgovor na sve brige i problemi u mom životu, ee, stalno mi daje 4 kraljevskoj ili postavljam 2 od hita od milion dolara, ne mogu to da ostavim sada, zagrejao sam
Ima još mnogo toga i ovo je ukratko. Otišao sam na kockanje da pobegnem od njenog oca, problemi sa novcem (kako je ironično) nesreća i depresija stvari koje se dešavaju u meni, najbliži kazino je bio na pešačkoj udaljenosti, čim bih ušao na vrata, uzeo bih taj veliki duboki dah opuštanja, i prokleto skoro da trčim do mašine koju sam želeo, sednem i ispustim taj dah i kažem.. kući sam.
Drugi primer je bio da sam imao strašnu zubobolju, to je bilo uveče, nisam mogao da posetim zubara do jutra, ništa što sam uradio nije olakšalo, mislim da sam uzeo 14 lekova, probao svaki oblik lokalnog anestetika ili prirodnog leka, topla voda, hladna voda... Pa konačno sam izašao kroz vrata i krenuo prema kazinu, još uvek u strašnim bolovima seo sam za mašinu. Za sat vremena bol je nestao, kod kuće sam prolazio kroz pakao sa bolom, došao sam ovde i saznao sam da je sve što mi je bilo potrebno je um materije, ali ništa drugo ne bi uradilo.. olakšalo. Čim sam izašao i krenuo kući, vraćalo se. Dakle, kažem da je to koliko jak lek protiv bolova može biti "kockanje". Bilo fizički bol ili psihički.
Ukratko..Da, postalo je loše, izgubio sam svaku stvar koju sam imao, do krajnjih granica u sramoti, živeći u jeftinim nedeljnicima, dao sam otkaz i stao sam na noge.. moja sreća je bila moja ćerka. To je sada nešto što mogu da kontrolišem, nešto čemu sam imao dobru tešku lekciju, mogu to da prihvatim ili ostavim.
Droga, to je bilo moje čudovište, najgora noćna mora, čista sam, ali ako bih ikad dozvolio samo mali ukus... neću imati kontrolu i dozvoliću tom čudovištu da me živog pojede iznova i iznova. Hemijska supstanca koja prodire u moje telo će kontrolisati svako vlakno, a onda mozak zajedno sa telom reaguje svojom zavisnošću od te žurbe koji samo želi sve više i više. Ne možete više reći svom mozgu i svom telu, to je borba u koju morate da se predate, bez obzira šta je potrebno da ga nahranite, uradićete to.. pravila većine. (ovo je moje lično iskustvo, a ne percepcija i osećam da je jedini način da to razumemo onaj koji je bio tamo)
Kockanje i alkohol mogu da budem u blizini i imam kontrolu, u stvari uživam u naletu mozga i mogu da odem, droga... to je ne, moram da se držim podalje. -
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Lips....you are so right! (As USUAL!) The casinos have known about the "near miss high" long before psychology got a handle on it. So, when your slot machine hits 2 cherries and bananna with a cherry miss by one.....well.
Usne....tako si u pravu! (Kao UOBIČAJNO!) Kazina su znala za "skoro promašaj" mnogo pre nego što se psihologija uhvatila u koštac sa tim. Dakle, kada vaša slot mašina pogodi 2 trešnje i bananu sa trešnjom, promašite za jednu.....pa.
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- u Jun 24, 10, 06:20:32 PM
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This comment i heard over and over when i was a counselor. Many would say to me "are you an addict yourself"? When i would say no i was not the door would shut in some cases, feeling that there was no way i could relate to them. That and the fact that of my youth at the time. I got my degree when i was 21 years old......"what could i possibly know". I learned very early on not to disclose whether i was an addict or not because it worked against me.
(this is my personal experience, not a perception and i do feel that the only way another is to understand it is one that has been there)
It was these comments that i have to admit i felt some what defeated in some cases and would have to turn the patient over to another counselor who was a reformed addict.
I went into the field not because of any personal reasons....but because i wanted to reach out and help people. I only hope that when someone does seek help and does speak to a counselor that they understand there are some of us who don't have to walk in your shoes to be compassionate understand what your going through.
After all we dedicated our lives to getting an education to help people.
LipsOvaj komentar sam čuo iznova i iznova dok sam bio savetnik. Mnogi bi mi rekli „da li si i sam zavisnik“? Kada bih rekao ne da nisam, vrata bi se u nekim slučajevima zatvorila, osećajući da ne postoji način da se povežem sa njima. To i činjenica moje tadašnje mladosti. Diplomirao sam kada sam imao 21 godinu......"šta sam mogao da znam". Vrlo rano sam naučio da ne otkrivam da li sam zavisnik ili ne jer je to delovalo protiv mene.
(ovo je moje lično iskustvo, a ne percepcija i osećam da je jedini način da to razumemo onaj koji je bio tamo)
Upravo ovi komentari su za koje moram da priznam da sam osetio nešto što je poraženo u nekim slučajevima i morao bih da predam pacijenta drugom savetniku koji je bio reformisani zavisnik.
Otišao sam na teren ne iz bilo kakvih ličnih razloga.... već zato što sam želeo da doprem i pomognem ljudima. Nadam se samo da kada neko traži pomoć i razgovara sa savetnikom da razume da postoje neki od nas koji ne moraju da idu u vaše cipele da bi bili saosećajni da razumeju kroz šta prolazite.
Na kraju krajeva, posvetili smo svoje živote obrazovanju kako bismo pomogli ljudima.
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Ahhhh...the blessing of the "wounded healer."
Ahhhh...blagoslov "ranjenog iscelitelja".
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Imagin....your words are very good. I would have to differ with you on one matter. Gambling DOES inject your body with a chemical. Gambling hooks the brain on certain chemical reactions/responses that gambling supplies.
For example, when you put $20 in a slot machine and win, say $30...then, you put that $30 back in and loose it all, your brain is certainly undergoing an "injection" of chemical process. When you loose your last dollar gambling, it likely because you have been chasing a chemical "bath" that you felt when you won the $30, but alas, the rush didn't arrive, so you spend the next day "hung over" with regret, guilt, shame and remorse.Zamisli... tvoje reči su veoma dobre. Morao bih da se razlikujem sa tobom u jednom pitanju. Kockanje Ubrizgava vaše telo hemikalijom. Kockanje vezuje mozak za određene hemijske reakcije/reakcije koje kockanje snabdeva.
Na primer, kada stavite 20 dolara u slot mašinu i osvojite, recimo 30 dolara...onda, vratite tih 30 dolara i sve izgubite, vaš mozak sigurno prolazi kroz „injekciju“ hemijskog procesa. Kada izgubite svoj poslednji dolar na kocki, to je verovatno zato što ste jurili za hemijskom „kupkom“ koju ste osetili kada ste osvojili 30 dolara, ali nažalost, navala nije stigla, pa ćete sledeći dan provesti „mamuran“ sa žaljenje, krivica, stid i kajanje. -
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I understand that Doc, what i mean is the action of putting a known chemical in your system, knowingly doing it, knowing it can cause harm to yourself, people will beleive that it isn't addicting, they are not adding a substance.. vs the own bodies chemical reactions. Some people really steer away from actual chemical drugs because they do know the harm, so for an addict gambling is the perfect drug.. you know what i mean?
Razumem da doktore, ono na šta mislim je radnja stavljanja poznate hemikalije u vaš sistem, svesno to radi, znajući da može da naškodi sebi, ljudi će verovati da to nije zavisnost, da ne dodaju supstancu.. naspram hemijskih reakcija sopstvenih tela. Neki ljudi se zaista klone stvarnih hemijskih droga jer znaju štetu, tako da je za zavisnika kockanje savršena droga.. znate na šta mislim?
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Doc.........your not suppose to tell that!!!
Ahhhh...the blessing of the "wounded healer."
Doktore.........to ne bi trebalo da kažeš!!!
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You got it! Gambling does a real number on the brain. I have shared this here before: When I go to a casino, I take my first 3 or 4 hours of winnings and lock in a box that has the key at HOME. Why? Because the gambling will start influencing my brain in a way where I don't have "normal" control. This is to prevent what is commonly called "Holy crap! I can't believe I blew my wad!"
Math and brain chemistry makes winning at gambling very hard. I really think its a matter of 1. getting very, very lucky. or 2. Getting ahead and stopping.Dogovoreno! Kockanje čini pravi broj na mozgu. Ovo sam ranije podelio ovde: Kada odem u kazino, uzmem svoja prva 3 ili 4 sata dobitka i zaključam kutiju u kojoj je ključ kod KUĆE. Zašto? Zato što će kockanje početi da utiče na moj mozak na način gde nemam „normalnu“ kontrolu. Ovo je da bi se sprečilo ono što se obično naziva "Sve sranje! Ne mogu da verujem da sam uprskao svoj pap!"
Matematika i hemija mozga čine pobedu u kockanju veoma teškim. Zaista mislim da je u pitanju 1. biti veoma, veoma srećan. ili 2. napredovanje i zaustavljanje. -
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Hold up, back to what rocco said. How many times has anyone said I wont do it, or I don't know what I am going to do; when we know damn well exactly what we are going to do and are just trying to justify what we know we are going to do.
I know myself very well. When I think I may be starting down the impulse road I usualy ask a friend or my girlfriend to make sure I don't go too far. The only problem is I also know that if I am ahead (like if I am up $400-$500) I will automaticly raise my base bet untill I either win big or loose around 40% or my bankroll. At least I know the secret of forcing myself to leave the local casino when I am up, Order a large pizza. I will be dammed if I am going to carry around a pizza for verry long in a cassino.Čekaj, vratimo se na ono što je Roko rekao. Koliko puta je neko rekao da to neću učiniti, ili ne znam šta ću; kada prokleto dobro znamo šta ćemo da uradimo i samo pokušavamo da opravdamo ono što znamo da ćemo uraditi.
Ja se dobro poznajem. Kada pomislim da možda krećem putem impulsa, obično zamolim prijatelja ili svoju devojku da se uverim da ne odem predaleko. Jedini problem je što takođe znam da ako sam ispred (na primer, ako sam veći od $400-$500) automatski ću podići svoju osnovnu opkladu dok ne dobijem veliku ili izgubim oko 40% ili svoj bankroll. Barem znam tajnu prisiljavanja da napustim lokalni kazino kada sam budna, naručim veliku picu. Biću proklet ako ću dugo nositi picu u kasinu. -
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There is also the visual excitement which is addicting, the thrill of winning which that single one thrill will grab ahold of you and won't let go until you reach it again and then again.. no matter what it takes. You'll spend 1000's and 1000's til you hit that thrill, and soon no amount of win satisfies it. You can't get ahead.. you'll be right back in that cycle doing it over and over.
I remember many times sitting there saying, well if i hit this 1000.00 i'll be alright, i can pay my bills, fill the house with groceries, buy a few things, this is how it started out i'd do just that, now i'd hit that 1000.00 and find all i got is more money to gamble with, raise my bets.. now i can "really relax and play" all i wanted was to gamble more, get up to go find another machine to fill the thrill.. this is the least of this addiction that it can do.. rock bottom is far from this, some peoples rock bottom are softer then others..
This here that i am explaining is the simple top of mind state of what happens, what the brain can do to you for control is lead you out of control. What part of the brain does this?Tu je i vizuelno uzbuđenje koje stvara zavisnost, uzbuđenje pobede koje će vas to jedno uzbuđenje zgrabiti i neće pustiti dok ga ne stignete ponovo i ponovo.. bez obzira šta je potrebno. Potrošićete 1000 i 1000 dok ne postignete to uzbuđenje, a uskoro ga nijedan iznos pobede neće zadovoljiti. Ne možete napredovati.. odmah ćete se vraćati u taj ciklus radeći to iznova i iznova.
Sećam se da sam mnogo puta sedeo tamo i rekao, pa ako stignem do ovih 1000.00, biću dobro, mogu da platim račune, napunim kuću namirnicama, kupim nekoliko stvari, ovako je počelo, uradio bih upravo to, sada bih pogodio tih 1000.00 i otkrio da je sve što imam je više novca za kockanje, podizanje opklada.. sada mogu da se "stvarno opustim i igram" sve što sam želeo je da se više kockam, ustanem da nađem drugu mašinu za punjenje uzbuđenje.. ovo je najmanje od ove zavisnosti koju može da uradi.. dno je daleko od ovoga, neki ljudi su mekši od drugih..
Ovo ovde što objašnjavam je jednostavno vrhunsko stanje uma onoga što se dešava, ono što vam mozak može učiniti za kontrolu je da vas izmakne kontroli. Koji deo mozga to radi? -
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When I get a win, the first thing I think of is what I could do with the money, and then something in my brain kicks in and tells me that if I just keep playing I will win more. One time I did keep playing and won lots more, but you know what I did when I won? I kept playing. I took a little home with me, but the majority of my win stayed right at the casino.
I will raise my bet once I get ahead, and that never works out for me, but as soon as I lower my bet and I hit something nice, I always think what it could have been had I kept my bet raised.
:-*Kada dobijem pobedu, prvo na šta pomislim je šta bih mogao da uradim sa novcem, a onda mi nešto u mozgu krene i kaže mi da ću osvojiti više ako nastavim da igram. Jednom sam nastavio da igram i osvojio mnogo više, ali znaš šta sam uradio kada sam pobedio? Nastavio sam da igram. Poneo sam malo kući sa sobom, ali je većina mojih pobeda ostala u kazinu.
Povećaću svoju opkladu kada budem napredovao, a to mi nikada ne polazi za rukom, ali čim spustim opkladu i pogodim nešto lepo, uvek pomislim šta bi moglo da bude da sam održao svoju opkladu podignutu.
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Hmmm. yeah, gambling is a chemical rush, and addicts have a hard time. Just today while pondering my choice of deposit at VR and withdraw that $45 I won on a free chip (which I've been debating with myself over for about 3 weeks already), noticing I had about 16 dollars over the w/d and sticky bonus, and since I wasn't already depositing so I must not care...
I started spinning on their new game. I passed my 16 dollars, but kept going betting 1-2 bucks a spin and my head telling me "guess I'm not depositing-yeah! keep spinning!" got down to about 10 bucks.
Then VR realized they were about to lose a sure deposit(hah hah...) or as luck would have it, bam! bonus round! Up over $100!! Yeah!!!
And since I couldn't withdraw that much, yeah! more spinning!.
Well I repeated that again, and I then stopped at .01 over the amount needed. Now I can spend another 2 weeks debating myself over the withdraw and then/or start spinning again.
So right now, I'm getting kinda high just sitting here talking about it and doing the mental "do I deposit" or "do I play" sub-program in my head, giggling over wondering how much time before I do one or the other.
Is there a phenomena then of the addiction to the "cooling off between gambling sessions" Like if you are at the casino, but back off and take a break, or enjoy the buffet or something...
While you are contemplating going back to gamble more vs. going on home to gamble another day, do you kinda enjoy that in the same way you enjoy a hit or a near miss?
and...and....And.... sorry I'm giddy and rambling, but also wanted to mention isn't the gambling addiction mindgame the same also with things like religion, or fishing, or hunting, or gold digging or any other thing in the world we find to occupy our time?
anyone want to place bets on my VR withdraw or spin issue? LOLHmmm. da, kockanje je hemijska žurba, a zavisnicima je teško. Upravo danas, dok sam razmišljao o svom izboru depozita u VR-u i povukao tih 45 dolara koje sam osvojio na besplatnom čipu (o čemu sam sa sobom raspravljao već oko 3 nedelje), primetio sam da imam oko 16 dolara preko v/d i lepljivog bonus, a pošto već nisam deponovao tako da me nije briga...
Počeo sam da se vrtim oko njihove nove igre. Prošao sam svojih 16 dolara, ali sam nastavio da se kladim na 1-2 dolara po okretu i moja glava mi je govorila "izgleda da ne uplaćujem - da! nastavi da se okrećeš!" spustio se na oko 10 dolara.
Tada je VR shvatio da će izgubiti siguran depozit (hah hah...) ili kako bi sreća bila, bam! bonus runda! Više od 100 dolara!! Ieah!!!
A pošto nisam mogao toliko da povučem, da! više se vrti!.
Pa, ponovio sam to ponovo, i onda sam se zaustavio na 0,01 iznad potrebnog iznosa. Sada mogu da provedem još 2 nedelje raspravljajući o povlačenju i onda/ili ponovo počnem da se okrećem.
Tako da se trenutno naduvam, samo sedim ovde i pričam o tome i radim mentalni podprogram „da li uplaćujem“ ili „da li igram“ u svojoj glavi, kikoćući se pitajući se koliko vremena pre nego što uradim jedan ili drugo.
Ima li onda fenomena zavisnosti od "zahlađivanja između kockanja" Kao ako ste u kazinu, ali se odmaknite i odmorite, ili uživajte u švedskom stolu ili tako nešto...
Dok razmišljate o tome da se više kockate u odnosu na odlazak kući da kockate neki drugi dan, da li uživate u tome na isti način na koji uživate u pogotku ili skorom promašaju?
i...i....I.... izvini što sam vrtoglav i lutajući, ali isto tako želim da pomenem nije li umna igra zavisnosti od kockanja ista i sa stvarima kao što su religija, ili ribolov, ili lov, ili zlato kopanje ili bilo koja druga stvar na svetu za koju smatramo da nam zaokuplja vreme?
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- u Jun 24, 10, 11:20:44 PM
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I've only been to a casino once - last year.
I had about $100 designated to be lost (haha) on gambling.
Put $20 in and when it went at least $10 over the $20 I'd cash out the ticket and pocket it, knowing I had profit in my pocket.
I'd put in another $20, and would play til I lost and put in another, or til it was high enough over $20 to put in that profit pocket.
In my mind, each $20 I used like that was as if it were the original $20, because in my pocket were tickets adding up to and above my original $100 I was going to spend having fun.
I made about $160 dollars, which was actually a $60 profit, but I told myself it was a $160 win because I planned to spend $100 on entertainment for the weekend anyway. math and psychology and gambling...what a mix.Bio sam samo jednom u kazinu - prošle godine.
Imao sam oko 100 dolara namenjenih za gubitak (haha) na kockanju.
Stavite 20 dolara i kada bi prešlo bar 10 dolara preko 20 dolara, unovčio bih kartu i stavio je u džep, znajući da imam profit u džepu.
Uložio bih još 20 dolara, i igrao bih dok ne izgubim i uložio još jedan, ili dok nije bio dovoljno visok preko 20 dolara da uložim taj profitni džep.
U mom umu, svakih 20 dolara koje sam tako koristio bilo je kao da je originalnih 20 dolara, jer su u mom džepu bile karte koje su bile više od mojih originalnih 100 dolara koje sam nameravao da potrošim zabavljajući se.
Zaradio sam oko 160 dolara, što je zapravo bio profit od 60 dolara, ali sam sebi rekao da je to pobeda od 160 dolara jer sam ionako planirao da potrošim 100 dolara na zabavu za vikend. matematika i psihologija i kockanje...kakva mešavina. -
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Doc, i have a question.. is there a drug that is given to addicted gamblers, like it is given to those addicted to drugs and alcohol?
Doktore, imam pitanje.. da li postoji droga koja se daje zavisnim kockarima, kao što se daje zavisnicima od droge i alkohola?
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one more thing I noticed about this today-with online bingo. Some sites show you the color of three upcoming bingo balls so you know if you are getting a B, I, N, G or an O ball. When you need only O71 and you see a yellow ball coming down...whew! You start yelling out 71! 71!...and you know other people do the same as you can see them chatting.
They highlight the cards when you have 3, 2, or 1 to go, and encourage you to post in chat 3TG!!!
And the chatting can get very addictive, just like here : )
And then you play a site where you can't see the color of any of the upcoming balls and you start getting withdrawal feelings...where's the color? darn! I wish they had the colored balls dropping down!!
And the chat games to win BBs so you can play, and the free hours, and the contests and newsletter scratch cards and poetry and joke and birthday bonuses!!!
The bingo sites have got the psychology DOWN!!još jedna stvar koju sam primetio u vezi sa ovim danas - sa onlajn bingom. Neki sajtovi vam pokazuju boju tri nadolazeće bingo lopte tako da znate da li dobijate B, I, N, G ili O loptu. Kada vam treba samo O71 i vidite kako žuta lopta pada... fuj! Počinješ da vičeš 71! 71!...i znate da drugi ljudi rade isto jer ih možete videti kako ćaskaju.
Oni ističu kartice kada imate 3, 2 ili 1 do kraja i podstiču vas da objavite u chatu 3TG!!!
A ćaskanje može da izazove veliku zavisnost, baš kao ovde :)
A onda igrate na sajtu gde ne možete da vidite boju bilo koje od nadolazećih loptica i počinjete da osećate da se povlačite... gde je boja? prokletstvo! Voleo bih da su obojene lopte padaju dole!!
I igre ćaskanja za osvajanje BB-ova kako biste mogli da igrate, i slobodni sati, i takmičenja i biltene, greb kartice i poezija i šale i rođendanski bonusi!!!
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Amen Chilly they definately know how to reel the players in just like the casinos.
:-*Amen Chilli, oni definitivno znaju kako da namotaju igrače baš kao i kazina.
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I wonder that as well Imagin. Like heroin addicts get methadone, do gamblers get a drug to help them too?
There was a drug being advertised on television, and it's side effect was Excessive GamblingImagine, you are taking a medication, for let's say Restless Leg Syndrome, I think it might have been, and next thing you know you are getting a loan from your bank to hit the tables?
:-*Pitam se i to Imagin. Kao što zavisnici od heroina dobijaju metadon, da li kockari dobijaju i drogu koja će im pomoći?
Na televiziji se reklamirao lek, a njegov neželjeni efekat je bilo preterano kockanjeZamislite, uzimate lekove, za recimo sindrom nemirnih nogu, mislim da bi moglo biti, a sledeće što znate da dobijate kredit od svoje banke da bi se pojavio?
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Self control is derived out of emotional impulses. The part of the brain that controls emotions also ties in with self control. We all have self control in our lives. If we did not have self control we would be completely out of control in all aspects of our lives.
This here that i am explaining is the simple top of mind state of what happens, what the brain can do to you for control is lead you out of control. What part of the brain does this?
A good example of this would be when something scares us. The fear is an emotional impulse......to remain calm we tell ourselves we must remain in control of the situation or we would lose it on the spot. We use self control in day to day living in our behavioral habits. This is what makes humans civil and adapt in society.
When our emotions are triggered by events in our lives such as trauma or depression this is when self control can be problem. Our self control can go haywire and what kicks in is the coping mechanism. That coping mechanism is to escape from the reality we don't want to deal with. We can become impulsive and make rash decisions because sometimes we think its just easier to cope.....so we think.
Emotions, impulses and self control all tie in together. This is why when a person does have an addiction it is very important to know what happened in their lives that triggered this addiction.
There is always the exception to the rule. Someone lives the "perfect" life, was brought up in the "perfect" family with no hard knocks at all and still becomes addicted. In a case like this it can only be blamed on the emotional structure of the person.
I hope i made some kind of sense. The brain and our behavior and why we react they way we do is sooooooooo complicated!
LipsSamokontrola je izvedena iz emocionalnih impulsa. Deo mozga koji kontroliše emocije takođe je povezan sa samokontrolom. Svi mi imamo samokontrolu u našim životima. Da nemamo samokontrolu, bili bismo potpuno van kontrole u svim aspektima našeg života.
Ovo ovde što objašnjavam je jednostavno vrhunsko stanje uma onoga što se dešava, ono što vam mozak može učiniti za kontrolu je da vas izmakne kontroli. Koji deo mozga to radi?
Dobar primer za to bi bio kada nas nešto plaši. Strah je emocionalni impuls......da bismo ostali mirni, govorimo sebi da moramo da zadržimo kontrolu nad situacijom ili bismo je izgubili na licu mesta. Koristimo samokontrolu u svakodnevnom životu u našim navikama ponašanja. To je ono što ljude čini građanskim i prilagođavaju se društvu.
Kada su naše emocije pokrenute događajima u našim životima kao što su trauma ili depresija, tada samokontrola može biti problem. Naša samokontrola može da se pokvari i ono što se aktivira je mehanizam za suočavanje. Taj mehanizam suočavanja je da pobegnemo od stvarnosti sa kojom ne želimo da se nosimo. Možemo postati impulsivni i donositi ishitrene odluke jer ponekad mislimo da je lakše izaći na kraj.....tako mislimo.
Emocije, impulsi i samokontrola su povezani. Zbog toga je kada osoba ima zavisnost veoma važno znati šta se dogodilo u njenim životima što je izazvalo ovu zavisnost.
Uvek postoji izuzetak od pravila. Neko živi "savršenim" životom, odrastao je u "savršenoj" porodici bez ikakvih jakih udaraca i još uvek postaje zavisnik. U ovakvom slučaju može se kriviti samo emocionalna struktura osobe.
Nadam se da sam imao neki smisao. Mozak i naše ponašanje i zašto reagujemo na način na koji to radimo je takooooooo komplikovano!
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“The sign of an intelligent people is their ability to control their emotions by the application of reason”
- Marya Mannes-„Znak inteligentnih ljudi je njihova sposobnost da kontrolišu svoje emocije primenom razuma“
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Great quote Nan.
:-*Odličan citat Nan.
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A gambling addict is like a crack addict, you continue to chase that high. You keep playing thinking, "it's got to hit eventually" and it sucks you right in.
I don't think gambling is a bad thing in moderation, but there are people that lack the self control needed to gamble. You need to be able to walk away, and most gamblers are not able to do so.
I also think gambling is more accepted than alot of other addictions, so in one light, most people that are addicts rarely even realize they are.
Just my 4.5 cents.
:-*Zavisnik od kockanja je kao zavisnik od kreka, nastavljaš da juriš to visoko. Nastavljaš da se igraš misleći, "na kraju mora da udari" i to te direktno usisa.
Ne mislim da je kockanje loše u umerenosti, ali postoje ljudi kojima nedostaje samokontrola koja je potrebna za kockanje. Morate biti u mogućnosti da odete, a većina kockara to nije u stanju.
Takođe mislim da je kockanje prihvaćenije od mnogih drugih zavisnosti, tako da u jednom svetlu, većina ljudi koji su zavisnici retko i shvataju da jesu.
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Thank you lips, that was excellent, in your studies have you found that there is a different form of dependency for all addictions.. such as gambling, alcohol and drugs or is it all tied to one type, and that it is the same "dependency" factor for everyone, i know each individual has their own reasons and problems and physcologically it will be different, im meaning the medical make up of our bodies..
For example gambling when i quit or at least gained control, i had no withdraws other then whenever something caused havoc or hurt me or things i couldn't handle i wanted to run and go gamble it was the first thing i thought of rather then facing the situation, to get it out of my mind.. if there was money in my hands there was nothing stopping me, even if it was for some bill or whatever.. the same reasons the gambling addiction started...physcologically dependent
With drugs i had withdraws, this isn't easy to explain other then i can say if you were a coffee drinker and go without your coffee you get that headache, this feels 10 times worse to some 100 times worse, when you begin to feel this you are terrified.. i ran back to the drugs for no other reason then to not feel that for relief, so i became physically dependent, but this was not how it started.. (im just stating this in short theres alot more to it)
The same brain mechanism that triggers both these effects?Hvala usne, to je bilo odlično, da li ste u svojim studijama otkrili da postoji drugačiji oblik zavisnosti za sve zavisnosti.. kao što su kockanje, alkohol i droga ili je sve to vezano za jednu vrstu, a da je to isto" faktor zavisnosti" za svakoga, znam da svaki pojedinac ima svoje razloge i probleme i fizički će to biti drugačije, mislim na medicinski sastav naših tela.
Na primer, kockanje kada sam dao otkaz ili barem stekao kontrolu, nisam imao odustajanja osim kad god bi me nešto izazvalo haos ili povredilo ili stvari sa kojima nisam mogao da podnesem želeo sam da pobegnem i idem da se kockam, to je bila prva stvar na koju sam pomislio, a ne da se suočim situacija, da to izbacim iz glave.. da je novac bio u rukama ništa me nije sprečilo, pa makar bilo i za neki račun ili šta već.. isti razlozi zbog kojih je počela zavisnost od kockanja... fizički zavisna
Sa drogama koje sam se povukao, ovo nije lako objasniti osim što mogu reći da ako pijete kafu i ako ostanete bez kafe, dobijete tu glavobolju, ovo je 10 puta gore do nekih 100 puta gore, kada počnete da se osećate ovo ti si prestravljen.. pobegao sam nazad na lekove bez drugog razloga da to ne osetim za olakšanje, tako da sam postao fizički zavisan, ali nije tako počelo.. (samo kažem ovo ukratko, ima još mnogo toga za to)
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A movie that really makes you not want to gamble anymore is Lucky You, with Drew Barrymore and Eric Bana. I remember watching that, seeing him do some of the same stuff I did in the past, and feeling sick to my stomach.
I went to casinos before I moved to the Pacific NW, and I didn't even know how to play the machines, and I was excited to win $25. Like truly amazed that it happened. I had no desire to go back, gambling addiction wasn't on the radar in any sense at all. I remember being so excited to spend that $25 towards dinner in a nice restaurant lol. Then I moved here, and I met a gambler. Same thing the first night in the casino, I was a total newb and not addicted. But then, we kept going back... then I was going without him.. then instead of working out at the gym I would sneak off to the casino. I used to get paid once a month at this time, when it all started, and before being introduced to it, I could save my money all month and it wasn't an issue. Oh boy was there a problem when I got hooked. Everything changed. I was 21 when I started and by the time I was 23 I was hooked and had a problem, and got counseling. I actually went a year and a half of no gambling whatsoever, and helped my friend get into gamblers anon. I joined online gambling groups just to keep myself in check. Then I went nutso and messed up pretty bad again. Then I got control. I would say i'm in a downslope right now, but I am working on getting control again. So I would definitely say it is a control issue, when I feel the most out of control I tend to do the most damage. I have more control now than I ever have before, I was extremely proud of myself on the Vegas trip a couple months ago. Control, control, control... good points there.
and yes, I too notice the excitement when you 'might' get that last symbol, so exciting.Film koji vas zaista čini da više ne želite da se kockate je Lucki Iou, sa Dru Barimor i Erikom Banom. Sećam se da sam to gledao, video ga kako radi neke od istih stvari koje sam radio u prošlosti, i osećao sam mučninu u stomaku.
Otišao sam u kazina pre nego što sam se preselio na Pacifik SZ, i nisam čak ni znao kako da igram na mašinama, i bio sam uzbuđen što sam osvojio 25 dolara. Kao da sam zaista začuđen što se to dogodilo. Nisam imao želju da se vraćam, zavisnost od kockanja uopšte nije bila na radaru. Sećam se da sam bio tako uzbuđen što ću potrošiti tih 25 dolara na večeru u lepom restoranu lol. Onda sam se preselio ovde, i sreo sam kockara. Ista stvar prve noći u kazinu, bio sam totalni novajlija i nisam bio zavisnik. Ali onda, stalno smo se vraćali... onda sam išla bez njega... onda bih umesto da vežbam u teretani, iskrala u kazino. U to vreme, kada je sve počelo, primao sam platu jednom mesečno, a pre nego što sam se upoznao, mogao sam da štedim svoj novac ceo mesec i to nije bio problem. Oh dečko, bio je problem kada sam se navukao. Sve se promenilo. Imao sam 21 godinu kada sam počeo, a do svoje 23 godine bio sam navučen i imao sam problem, i dobio sam savetovanje. Ja sam zapravo godinu i po dana bio bez kockanja i pomogao svom prijatelju da uđe u kockare. Pridružio sam se grupama za onlajn kockanje samo da bih bio pod kontrolom. Onda sam poludeo i opet prilično zabrljao. Onda sam dobio kontrolu. Rekao bih da sam trenutno u padu, ali radim na tome da ponovo dobijem kontrolu. Tako da bih definitivno rekao da je to problem kontrole, kada se osećam da je najviše van kontrole, nanosim najveću štetu. Sada imam više kontrole nego ikada ranije, bio sam izuzetno ponosan na sebe na putovanju u Vegasu pre nekoliko meseci. Kontrola, kontrola, kontrola... dobre stvari.
i da, i ja primećujem uzbuđenje kada 'možda' dobijete taj poslednji simbol, tako uzbudljiv. -
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- drpsyce38
- u Jun 25, 10, 07:33:36 AM
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Imagin......the latest research tells us it is the neo cortex that effects gambling. In fact, there is some cutting age treatment for gambling that actually surgically removes the neo cortex. THOUGH, most believe the problem is located in the orbitalfrontal cortex.
Another more reliable theory is gambling addicts' judgement and decision making brain function is just underdeveloped. (Ha! I blew my wad because I have less brain!)
Some believe that addictive gambling functions on the brain EXACTLY the same way that cocaine does. A 2001 Harvard study denomstrated this. And also a 2003 Cambridge study.
A more psychogical analysis: Some people who are already depressed or have compulsive tendencies or mood disorders, will be drawn into gambling.
Also, exposure to gambling as a child GREATLY effects the brain toward gambling.
Even if you DON'T have an addiction, the brain's "reward" system can certainly be hijacked by gambling.
KEY POINT: Fact: more men gamble than women BUT....women become addicted faster.Zamislite...... najnovije istraživanje nam govori da je neokorteks taj koji utiče na kockanje. U stvari, postoji neki najsavremeniji tretman za kockanje koji zapravo hirurški uklanja neokorteks. IAKO, većina veruje da je problem lociran u orbitalno-frontalnom korteksu.
Još jedna pouzdanija teorija je da je mišljenje zavisnika od kockanja i funkcija mozga za donošenje odluka jednostavno nedovoljno razvijena. (Ha! Oduvao sam se jer imam manje mozga!)
Neki veruju da zavisnost od kockanja deluje na mozak TAKO na isti način kao kokain. Studija Harvarda iz 2001. je to pokazala. I takođe studija Kembridža iz 2003.
Psihološka analiza: Neki ljudi koji su već depresivni ili imaju kompulzivne tendencije ili poremećaje raspoloženja, biće uvučeni u kockanje.
Takođe, izloženost kockanju u detinjstvu VELIKO utiče na mozak prema kockanju.
Čak i ako NEMATE zavisnost, sistem "nagrađivanja" mozga sigurno može biti otet kockanjem.
KLJUČNA TAČKA: Činjenica: više muškaraca se kocka nego žena ALI....žene postaju zavisne brže. -
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- u Jun 25, 10, 07:43:49 AM
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Imagin....
There has NOT been found a medicine that is the magic bullet for gambing addiction.
Most of the time anti depressants or mood stablizers are used.
Recently, narcotic antagonists have been used, like Nalrexone. These are mostly used for alcohol or drug addictions, but since gambling is so similar to these type addictions, it has been discovered that there is some level of effectiveness with gambling addiction.Zamislite....
NIJE pronađen lek koji je magični metak za zavisnost od kockanja.
Uglavnom se koriste antidepresivi ili stabilizatori raspoloženja.
Nedavno su korišćeni narkotički antagonisti, kao što je Nalrekson. Oni se uglavnom koriste za zavisnost od alkohola ili droga, ali pošto je kockanje toliko slično zavisnostima ove vrste, otkriveno je da postoji određeni nivo efikasnosti kod zavisnosti od kockanja. -
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- u Jun 25, 10, 01:19:38 PM
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Thank you Doc and Thank you Lips, this has been very interesting to me it helps me to understand alot of what goes on.
I guessing with all this information, that it is because woman are more emotional then men.
I know the reason i lived my life in casino constantly was because i was depressed, i mean i was happy and i made the best of things, i just hated what my life had become and who i had my life with, he had addictions as well i absolutely hated them(strange to hate those addictions and you have one yourself or become addicted) felt stuck.. instead of making those changes i ran to the casinos, as soon as i left him, my whole life turned around i was able to quit.. i have nothing to blame but myself BUT... him and my life with him was a key factor.. and to top it off it took a long time before i even realized i was addicted, i was young
My daughter was my strong point, she was almost 8 before it all really started for me (i was young when i had her). This brain infliction or uncontrol never interfered with my duties to her. My god here in Vegas you wouldn't beleive what people do with their children, left on sidewalks, hot cars, left in casino childcare, left in the restaurants, sitting along the hallways, taken to the arcades, left at school. One woman had her child hidden in a frontal backpack and sat there gambling. There was a story here once a mans 8 year old child was murdered in the casinos arcade, when told she was missing her father kept gambling, when it was found that she was murdered he asked for money to continue gambling, so the normal brain functions, reaction and descion making in this was completely obliterated by this persons chemical release from gambling.
If i got a call that had anything to do with my daughter i was out the door and on my way, BUT my thought to MYSELF were, damnit why they got to distrub me while im gambling and get angry. If it were any other calls, my house could be burning down, robbed, car stolen.. i wasn't leaving.
My daughter triggered that normal brain function in admidst the gambling.
I won alot of money, i was lucky most of the time, it was a matter of leaving the casino and bringing the money home that got bad, and then got worse... 20 after 20.. i even enjoyed that awful feeling when i'd come home after losing everything, that kept my mind off of things emotionally troubling me, i hope thats not strange.. savoring the afterburn.
When i stopped i had my daughter go with me to pick up my paychecks, i would not do auto-deposit in my bank account. I'd pick it up, cash it take care of business and go home. I worked in a casino at this time.. how convient it was and the stories to tell. Temptation, Temptation all around affecting the brain, to just pick up my paycheck, sit down in front of a machine after hard work, have a free drink and relax... lol
Drugs came later in my life, i knew right away,i noticed most drug addictions start early ages and last the lifetime.. though it was hard to kick, it is easier for me to stay away from. I beleive if i would have started at an early age, that i would be alot weaker in mind to the addiction because of all the other things going on in my life during those crucial years, that if i had to be addicted i thank god that it was gambling and not drugs that took those years from me.Hvala doktore i hvala Lips, ovo mi je bilo veoma zanimljivo i pomaže mi da razumem mnogo toga šta se dešava.
Pretpostavljam uz sve ove informacije da je to zato što su žene emotivnije od muškaraca.
Znam da je razlog zašto sam stalno živeo u kazinu bio zato što sam bio depresivan, mislim da sam bio srećan i napravio sam najbolje od stvari, samo sam mrzeo šta je moj život postao i sa kim sam vodio život, on je imao zavisnosti kao pa, apsolutno sam ih mrzeo (čudno je mrzeti te zavisnosti, a ti imaš jednu ili si postao zavisnik) osećao sam se zaglavio.. umesto da napravim te promene, otrčao sam u kazina, čim sam ga napustio, ceo život mi se okrenuo mogao sam da odustanem.. nemam ništa da krivim osim sebe ALI... on i moj život sa njim su bili ključni faktor.. i povrh svega, trebalo je mnogo vremena pre nego što sam uopšte shvatio da sam zavisnik, bio sam mlad
Moja ćerka je bila moja jača strana, imala je skoro 8 godina pre nego što je sve počelo za mene (bio sam mlad kada sam je imao). Ova povreda mozga ili nekontrola nikada nije ometala moje dužnosti prema njoj. Bože moj ovde u Vegasu, ne biste verovali šta ljudi rade sa svojom decom, ostavljeni na trotoarima, uzavreli automobili, ostavljeni u čuvanju dece u kazinu, ostavljeni u restoranima, sede duž hodnika, odvedeni u arkade, ostavljeni u školi. Jedna žena je imala dete sakriveno u prednjem rancu i sedela tamo i kockala se. Postojala je priča kada je jedno muško dete od 8 godina ubijeno u arkadi kazina, kada su joj rekli da je nestala, njen otac je nastavio da se kocka, kada je otkriveno da je ubijena tražio je novac da nastavi da se kocka, tako da mozak funkcioniše normalno , reakcija i donošenje odluka u ovome je potpuno izbrisano hemijskim oslobađanjem ove osobe od kockanja.
Ako sam dobio poziv koji je imao ikakve veze sa mojom ćerkom, bio sam na vratima i krenuo sam, ALI mislio sam na SEBE, dođavola, zašto su morali da me ometaju dok se kockam i ljutim se. Da je bilo nekih drugih poziva, moja kuća bi mogla da izgori, opljačkana, auto ukraden.. Nisam odlazio.
Moja ćerka je pokrenula normalnu funkciju mozga usred kockanja.
Osvojio sam mnogo novca, imao sam sreće većinu vremena, bilo je pitanje da napustim kazino i donesem novac kući što je postalo loše, a onda se pogoršalo... 20 posle 20.. čak sam i uživao u tom groznom osećaju kada Vratio sam se kući nakon što sam izgubio sve, što me je odvratilo od stvari koje su me emotivno mučile, nadam se da to nije čudno.. uživajući u naknadnom sagorevanju.
Kada sam stao, naterao sam ćerku da ide sa mnom da pokupi moje plate, ne bih dao automatski depozit na svoj bankovni račun. Podigao bih ga, unovčio ga za posao i otišao kući. U to vreme sam radio u kazinu.. kako je bilo zgodno i priče za ispričati. Iskušenje, iskušenje svuda utiče na mozak, da samo podignem platu, sednem ispred mašine posle napornog rada, popijem besplatno piće i opustim se... lol
Droge su se pojavile kasnije u mom životu, odmah sam znao, primetio sam da većina zavisnosti od droge počinje u ranom dobu i traje ceo život.. iako je bilo teško da se opustim, lakše mi je da se držim podalje. Verujem da bih počeo u ranoj mladosti, da bih bio mnogo slabiji na umu zbog svih drugih stvari koje su se dešavale u mom životu tokom tih ključnih godina, da ako bih morao da budem zavisnik, hvala Bogu da te godine mi je oduzeo kocka, a ne droga. -
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- Lipstick
- u Jun 25, 10, 04:36:12 PM
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It is not strange and so so normal!! Well normal as far as the gambling addiction behavior. Your still in escape mode away from coping with other things in your life.
i even enjoyed that awful feeling when i'd come home after losing everything, that kept my mind off of things emotionally troubling me, i hope thats not strange.. savoring the afterburn.
It is a very good point you made here imagin. It is not uncommon to create other destructions in your life as a long as it keeps your mind away from the harsh reality of what you don't want to deal with.
This might sound horrible to say but i am sure there is people (even those that are not addicts) who actually feel a sense of relief off their own worries when tragedy strikes another. Not to say your glad your family, friends etc. is having a hard time of it....but it keeps your focus off yourself and allows you to not have to deal with it.
Ironically these people are probably the most compassionate caring people when someone else in trouble. They tend to put their heart and soul in helping someone in need. Having known what heartache and sorrow themselves.
And folks that is what you call.............the wounded healer.
LipsNije čudno i tako normalno!! Pa normalno što se tiče ponašanja zavisnosti od kockanja. Još uvek ste u režimu bekstva daleko od suočavanja sa drugim stvarima u svom životu.
čak sam uživao u onom užasnom osećaju kada sam se vratio kući nakon što sam izgubio sve, koji mi je odvraćao misli od stvari koje su me emocionalno uznemiravale, nadam se da to nije čudno.. uživanje u naknadnom sagorevanju.
Veoma je dobra poenta koju ste ovde izneli da zamislite. Nije neuobičajeno stvarati druga razaranja u svom životu sve dok to drži vaš um podalje od surove stvarnosti sa čime ne želite da se nosite.
Ovo bi moglo zvučati užasno reći, ali siguran sam da postoje ljudi (čak i oni koji nisu zavisnici) koji zaista osećaju olakšanje od sopstvenih briga kada tragedija pogodi drugog. Da ne kažem da vam je drago što vašoj porodici, prijateljima itd. to teško pada.... ali to vam odvraća pažnju od vas samih i omogućava vam da ne morate da se bavite time.
Ironično, ovi ljudi su verovatno najsaosećajniji brižni ljudi kada je neko drugi u nevolji. Oni imaju tendenciju da ulože svoje srce i dušu da pomognu nekome kome je potrebna. Saznavši kakva bol i tuga i sami.
A ljudi, to je ono što vi zovete ............. ranjeni iscelitelj.
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- u Jun 25, 10, 05:04:03 PM
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Imagin....you have had more than your share of Hell on this earth! But....you ARE making it. Keep going. And let people help you.
Lipps, you describe the Wounded Healer well. Sadly, we often call the co-dependent a "wounded healer" which they certainly are not.Zamislite... imali ste više od svog udela u paklu na ovoj zemlji! Ali....TI to uspevaš. Nastavi. I neka ti ljudi pomognu.
Lips, dobro opisuješ Ranjenog iscelitelja. Nažalost, često zavisne osobe nazivamo „ranjenim isceliteljima“, što oni svakako nisu. -
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- u Jun 25, 10, 08:54:14 PM
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When I was in treatment for my drug abuse I read Codependant No More by Melody Beattie, and so did my husband.
I found that it had excellent tools to use in day to day life, and I realized I am a very Codependant person.
Codependancy is a drug in itself for some. Well that is my opinion at least.
:-*Dok sam bila na lečenju zbog zloupotrebe droga, pročitala sam Codependant No More od Melodi Beattie, kao i moj muž.
Otkrio sam da ima odlične alate za korišćenje u svakodnevnom životu i shvatio sam da sam veoma kozavisna osoba.
Zavisnost je za neke droga sama po sebi. Pa to je barem moje mišljenje.
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- u Dec 12, 10, 03:55:03 AM
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very interesting post. thanks
veoma zanimljiv post. Hvala
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- drpsyce38
- u Dec 12, 10, 04:03:11 PM
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Let me put this in the most simple terms. Gambling makes your brain go BING! And your brain gets hooked on that BING. Most people can control the BING-urge. Some cannot. If you cannot, you'll get into serious trouble.
The Mind Doc has spoken!Dozvolite mi da ovo izrazim najjednostavnijim rečima. Kockanje čini vaš mozak BING! I vaš mozak se navuče na taj BING. Većina ljudi može da kontroliše BING nagon. Neki ne mogu. Ako ne možete, ući ćete u ozbiljne nevolje.
Doc za um je progovorio!
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