Fizička ili mentalna privlačnost...šta vas uzbuđuje?

Well...now in my 40s, the usual T and A just aren't the immediate attraction they once were.  So I would say EYES, definately the EYES.  Also, when I am in A.C. I have a gal I pay rather handsomely for a massage.  She is highly attractive, but I like the look of her hands.  Truly works of art.

attraction would be a major factor as to what turns me on...and the mental attraction could be the very factor that turns it off...

but if you are looking for something deeper than merely being turned on and moreso towards a meaningful relationship - it would start with attraction which is the first of the five stages of a relationship. The five stages are as follows;

Stage 1 – The Romance, Honeymoon, Attraction, Infatuation Stage
Stage 2 - The Disillusionment, Reality, Unmasking Stage
Stage 3 - The Power Struggle, Friction, Disappointment Stage
Stage 4 - The Stability, Friendship, Reconciliation Stage
Stage 5 - The Commitment, Acceptance, Transformation, Real Love Stage

YING and YANG i think apply here(depends on how YOU see it)due to the fact i can sit at a game of cribbage with an opponent who could win "hideous of the year" and just be so attracted to his his his(see typin mesmerizes)whit, skill, just wonderin what makes him tick,always givin me a piece of new knowledge mental activity(there i go again)i found myself always wanting to be with this man.Then there is still the love of my life always will(dunno why)but he hurt me and hurt me more than you know(only 1 i ever "went back" to EVER)but even knowing what the outcome was i was so attracted to his beautiful body amazing curved smooth definition and as the color of steel intense eyes...he was not to be trusted...AWWW ANYHOW they both can be overwhelming and absent each other so if you find  w/both dont let it get away BOOIE

I have always been attracted to someone based on their personality and whats inside.I agree with Tony 100%

that may be true for you, but in my case it is not. Just because someone is attractive doesn't mean I'm gonna walk across the room and start talking to them. I may look at them but something else has to spark my interest.

It's a combination of both 4 me.  Now, Bruce (husband) & I met on-line; we talked every single nite on-line, minimum of 5 hrs.  We had no clue what the other looked like; by the time we met in-person (2 mos. later) I could have cared less what he looked like.  I was already in love with him; 'course, I'm not gonna lie..... the fact that he's absolutely GORGEOUS (2 me anyway) certainly helped things   It's been 5 years & we r very happily married

neither i go with personality and character and values

I feel so darn shallow...but, I am staying with "eyes!"

Tony......well said.  Yeah, we guys **eventually** go for the good conversation, brains, depth, etc.  But, hey, we need a shallow, enticing "hook" to bring us in!

Lips.....I am going to play devils advocate here.  I agree 100% with what you say.  However, I don't see many, if any, very attractive women with short, fat, balding, den legged, bulbous nosed men who have "inner strength." 

what REALLY turns me on...is if they do the dishes!!!!!!!!!!!

hahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!! 


don't care WHAT they look like then 

LOL !!!!!!    ya..... but do they get clean
BOOIE

funny...that's why i usually do the dishes, the shopping, etc, etc...

want something done right? right

Wow soda69 I think that's the best analysis I've ever read on the subject.