Hi Guys and Dolls,
I can't believe how impatient and how easily angered people can be sometimes. Especially when you are out in the public.
I ran to the gas station because i was out of cigarettes. There are parking spots directly in front of the door. Now when i pulled up there was not a soul parked in the 5-6 spaces available. I sorta parked cock-eyed i will admit. But i knew i would be out in a flash anyway.
When i came back to my car there was a woman who pulled up next to me. She gave me the filthiest, dirtiest look that she could muster up. I get in the car thinking to myself, no way i had to read her wrong. As i start my car i glance over to her and she is shaking her head and glaring at me.
Ok now that i know it's not my imagination and she is really ticked off, i am wondering what on God's green earth did i do. I am going over it in my head when i glance over again and her head is moving back and fourth up and down the length of my car.
Oh she made her point crystal clear that she did not like the way i pulled in that parking spot. But the strange thing is, i did not take up two spots and she parked right in front of door as well. Why would she waste the time and energy to get so angered?
Have you ran across rude people when you have been out and about. And why do you think such trivial things tick people off so much?
Lips
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- u Jan 17, 11, 09:36:00 PM
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Zdravo momci i lutke,
Ne mogu da verujem koliko ljudi ponekad mogu biti nestrpljivi i lako naljuti. Pogotovo kada ste u javnosti.
Otrčao sam na benzinsku pumpu jer mi je ponestalo cigareta. Ima parking mesta direktno ispred vrata. Sada kada sam stao, nije bilo nijedne duše parkirane na 5-6 slobodnih mesta. Nekako sam parkirao budan, priznajem. Ali znao sam da ću svejedno izaći napolje.
Kada sam se vratio do auta, jedna žena je stala pored mene. Uputila mi je najprljaviji, najprljaviji pogled koji je mogla da skupi. Ulazim u auto misleći u sebi, nema šanse da sam je pogrešno pročitao. Dok palim auto, bacim pogled na nju, a ona odmahuje glavom i bijesno me gleda.
U redu, sada kada znam da to nije moja mašta i da je ona stvarno odlepljena, pitam se šta sam, zaboga, uradio. Prelazim preko toga u svojoj glavi kada ponovo pogledam i njena glava se pomera nazad i četvrta gore-dole duž mog auta.
Oh, jasno je rekla da joj se ne dopada način na koji sam ušao na to parking mesto. Ali čudna stvar je što nisam zauzeo dva mesta i ona je takođe parkirala ispred vrata. Zašto bi gubila vreme i energiju da se toliko naljuti?
Da li ste naišli na nepristojne ljude kada ste bili napolju. I zašto mislite da takve trivijalne stvari toliko razdražuju ljude?
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- u Jan 18, 11, 07:36:31 AM
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Well..."ticked off" people are usually preoccupied with some anxiety producing situation in their life. The "ticked off" is simply their projected anxiousness.
So, this woman may be having trouble with her family, finances, job, etc. My educated guess she is anxious about something to do with responsiblity. (Kid is not responsible, job, government, etc.) So, when you did the grandma-cock-eyed parking job (Ha!) it pulled up those feelings....hence the dirty look you got.
To an NON-anxious person your parking job was 1. not noticed, or 2. would invoke a bit of a "oh well."
To an anxious person your parking job was viewed as "does that person think they are the only person on the lot?! Come on lady, park it right!
I LOVE the topics you raise!Pa... "oglašeni" ljudi su obično zaokupljeni nekom situacijom koja izaziva anksioznost u svom životu. "Otkraćeno" je jednostavno njihova projektovana anksioznost.
Dakle, ova žena možda ima problema sa svojom porodicom, finansijama, poslom itd. Moja obrazovana pretpostavka je da je zabrinuta zbog nečega što ima veze sa odgovornošću. (Dete nije odgovorno, posao, vlada, itd.) Dakle, kada ste radili posao parkiranja sa bakama i očima (Ha!) to je povuklo ta osećanja.... otuda i prljavi pogled koji ste dobili.
Za osobu koja nije anksiozna, vaš posao parkiranja 1. nije primećen, ili 2. bi prizvao malo „oh dobro“.
Anksioznoj osobi je vaš posao parkiranja bio viđen kao „da li ta osoba misli da je jedina osoba na placu?! Hajde gospođo, parkiraj kako treba!
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- u Jan 18, 11, 07:49:19 AM
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I believe we should form a company, Stickricdoc & assoc. market our talents as BRAIN HEALERS.
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I believe we should form a company, Stickricdoc & assoc. market our talents as BRAIN HEALERS.
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Verujem da treba da formiramo kompaniju, Stickricdoc & Assoc. plasirajte naše talente kao ISCELITELJE MOZGA.
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- u Jan 18, 11, 09:22:52 AM
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I guess you'd better be thankful she didn't haul out a gun and start shooting!!
I like Doc thinking that if you're anxious, you'll pick on little things. Personally, I chuckle when I see a cock-eyed parking job (And I have even done it myself!) so I just have smiled and parked elsewhere (You think I want damage from you crazies??) in the lot.Pretpostavljam da je bolje da budete zahvalni što nije izvukla pištolj i počela da puca!!
Sviđa mi se da Doc misli da ćeš, ako si uznemiren, birati male stvari. Lično, nasmejem se kada vidim posao parkiranja s kokošičkim očima (A čak sam ga i sam uradio!) pa sam se samo nasmešio i parkirao negde drugde (Mislite da želim štetu od vas, ludaka??) na parkingu. -
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- u Jan 19, 11, 12:08:38 AM
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I think people are angry at the U.S.Government. The President, the Congress to some have failed them miserably and in the right atmosphere that anger manifests itself in a fit of rage.
Mislim da su ljudi ljuti na američku vladu. Predsednik, Kongres nekima su ih izneverili i u pravoj atmosferi taj bes se manifestuje u naletu besa.
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- u Jan 19, 11, 07:10:24 AM
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Joseph, and all:
Joseph, you hit a great point. Most people who keep track of society's "pulse" will tell you overall anger/frustation/anxiety is abnormally high. And yes, government is a big part of that. What is scary is there seems to be no hint at a decline in this over all anger.....it seems to be increasing. What next? Scary to even speculate.
A good example of this: The terrorist group Al Quada has grown due to the very high anxiety in the Arab world. In essence, years of ultra high anxiety in the middle east has produced a "soil" to grow Al Quada. Now, this is an extreme example, but it demonstrates how growing anxiety in a population can lead to some rather serious situations.Josif, i svi:
Joseph, pogodio si sjajnu tačku. Većina ljudi koji prate „puls” društva reći će vam da je ukupna ljutnja/frustacija/anksioznost nenormalno visoka. I da, vlada je veliki deo toga. Ono što je zastrašujuće je da izgleda da nema nagoveštaja o opadanju ovog besa... čini se da se povećava. Šta dalje? Strašno je čak i spekulisati.
Dobar primer ovoga: teroristička grupa Al Kvada je porasla zbog veoma velike anksioznosti u arapskom svetu. U suštini, godine ultra visoke anksioznosti na Bliskom istoku stvorile su „tlo“ za uzgoj Al Kuada. Ovo je ekstreman primer, ali pokazuje kako rastuća anksioznost u populaciji može dovesti do nekih prilično ozbiljnih situacija. -
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- u Jan 19, 11, 01:38:04 PM
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Great analogy doc. But i think even in a peaceful world, anger will always exist. Being quick to anger only attributes to many factors.
I always thought of people on the street that were snippy had some pent up frustration they couldn't express at home and let loose with strangers because there is no lingering consequences.
I have known people who are as easy going as can be, but get them on the street with the public and that's where you see a whole different side of them. Then and only then are the quick to anger.
LipsVelika analogija dok. Ali mislim da će i u mirnom svetu bes uvek postojati. Biti brz na gnevu pripisuje se samo mnogim faktorima.
Uvek sam razmišljao o ljudima na ulici koji su bili nabrijani imaju neku nagomilanu frustraciju koju nisu mogli da ispolje kod kuće i da se opuste sa strancima jer nema dugotrajnih posledica.
Poznavao sam ljude koji su najlakši koliko je to moguće, ali izvucite ih na ulicu sa javnošću i tu vidite njihovu potpuno drugačiju stranu. Tada i samo tada su brzi na gnevu.
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